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• Winner of the Outstanding Book Award for Excellence in Conflict Resolution from the International Institute for Conflict Prevention and Resolution •
In Getting to Yes, renowned educator and negotiator Roger Fisher presented a universally applicable method for effectively negotiating personal and professional disputes. Building on his work as director of the Harvard Negotiation Project, Fisher now teams with Harvard psychologist Daniel Shapiro, an expert on the emotional dimension of negotiation and author of Negotiating the Nonnegotiable: How to Resolve Your Most Emotionally Charged Conflicts. In Beyond Reason, Fisher and Shapiro show readers how to use emotions to turn a disagreement-big or small, professional or personal-into an opportunity for mutual gain.
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“Written in the same remarkable vein as Getting to Yes, this book is a masterpiece.”
—Dr. Steven R. Covey, author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
“Powerful, practical advice. It will put your emotions to good use.”
—Archbishop Desmond Tutu
“A must read for anyone who negotiates—which is to say for all of us.”
—Elena Kagan, Associate Justice of the Supreme Court of the United States; former dean of Harvard Law School; and former associate counsel to the president
“A brilliant guide . . . Anyone who faces a difficult conversation, let alone a formal negotiation, can use this as a guidebook.”
—Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence
“Destined to take its place alongside Getting to Yes on innumerable bookshelves around the world.”
—Howard Gardner, Harvard University
“An indispensable real-world guide for anyone. Roger Fisher and Daniel Shapiro have brilliantly detailed a methodical system for moving emotions in a constructive direction. The NYPD Hostage Negotiation Team faces some of the most high-stakes decisions every day. We regularly apply the skills of Beyond Reason to create the straightforward dialogue that resolves the vast majority of our hostage negotiations.”
—Lt. Jack J. Cambria, commanding officer, NYPD Hostage Negotiation Team
“As the prosecutor of the International Criminal Court, I have to apply law to the world's most serious crimes. A real challenge is how to deal with people's emotions and to maximize the constructive impact of our work. Beyond Reason provides essential tools to understand how to develop solutions to even the most serious problem.”
—Luis Moreno-Ocampo, chief prosecutor, International Criminal Court
“The perfect follow-up to Getting to YES . . . The book is both profound and easy to read, based on a wide range of research and firsthand experience in negotation. There is no interaction setting—public, professional, or personal, local, or international—where its recommendations will not be applicable.”
—Elise Boudling, Dartmouth College
“Beyond Reason is exactly what we need now: a lucid, systematic approach to dealing with emotions, infused with a practical wisdom that will help you understand, enrich, and improve all your negotiations—and all your relations with fellow human beings.”
—Leonard L. Riskin, director, Center for the Study of Dispute Resolution, University of Missouri-Columbia
“The resurgence of interest in emotions has broadened the impact of research on brain and behavior. Beyond Reason takes this to a new level, showing how emotions can positively and negatively affect the way managers and other negotiators approach their goals.”
—Joseph LeDoux, author of Anxious, The Emotional Brain, and Synaptic Self
“Masters of diplomacy, Fisher and Shapiro of the Harvard Negotiation Project, build on Fisher's bestseller (he coauthored Getting to YES) with this instructive, clearly written book that addresses the emotions and relationships inevitably involved in negotiation.”
—Publishers Weekly (starred review)
“This is one of those unusual works that is so carefully constructed and written that you may find yourself praising its common sense and nodding easily in concurrence. . . . It is a book to reflect upon and that belongs on every negotiator's reference shelf.”
—The Negotiator Magazine
“In this valuable, clearly written book, the authors say good negotiations—in business as well as in personal or family situations—hinge on respect for others, but also respect for your own feelings.”
- ASIN : B000PDYVRK
- Publisher : Penguin Books (Oct. 6 2005)
- Language : English
- File size : 2303 KB
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- Print length : 256 pages
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Emotions do happen and this book covers nicely possible approaches in dealing with this important element (while keeping full respect for yourself and for the other party at the negotiation table).
The 5 key points covered here (express appreciation, build affiliation, respect autonomy, acknowledge status and role) are very handy to know and to apply whether you are negotiating, building a (business) relationship or dealing with customers at all levels (business development, consulting, sales, contract negotiation, complaint handling, problem solving,...).
If interested in negotiation I would suggest reading additional material as this book only deals with the emotional aspects. I would certainly suggest Beyond winning, Getting to Yes, Getting past No, Negotiation Genius, 3D Negotiation, Hostage at the table, or any negotiation course at Harvard Law School - the Program on Negotiation (PON).
A great read...
I The Big Picture
1. Emotions are powerful, always present, and hard to handle
2. Address the concern, not the emotion
II Take the initiative
3. Express appreciation - Find merit in what others think, feel or do and show it
4. Build Affiliation - Turn an adversary into a colleague
5. Respect autonomy - Expand yours (and don't impinge upon theirs)
6. Acknowledge status - Recognize high standing wherever deserved
7. Choose a fulfilling role - and select the activities within in
III Some additional advice
8. On strong negative emotions - They happen. Be ready.
9. On being prepared - Prepare on process, substance, and emotion
10. On using these ideas in the `Real world' - A personal account by Jamil Mahuad, former president of Ecuador
V End matter
Seven elements of negotiation
Analytical table of contents
About the authors
A great read with lots of real-life examples that you will easily be able to relate to with your own experiences. Indeed, if you are one of those people who are always looking to do a bit of introspection and improve your character, then I cannot recommend this book for you enough.