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Conversational Intelligence: How Great Leaders Build Trust and Get Extraordinary Results Hardcover – Illustrated, Oct. 1 2013
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The key to success in life and business is to become a master at Conversational Intelligence. It's not about how smart you are, but how open you are to learn new and effective powerful conversational rituals that prime the brain for trust, partnership, and mutual success. Conversational Intelligence translates the wealth of new insights coming out of neuroscience from across the globe, and brings the science down to earth so people can understand and apply it in their everyday lives. Author Judith Glaser presents a framework for knowing what kind of conversations trigger the lower, more primitive brain; and what activates higher-level intelligences such as trust, integrity, empathy, and good judgment. Conversational Intelligence makes complex scientific material simple to understand and apply through a wealth of easy to use tools, examples, conversational rituals, and practices for all levels of an organization.
- Print length264 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherRoutledge
- Publication dateOct. 1 2013
- Dimensions15.24 x 1.6 x 22.86 cm
- ISBN-101937134679
- ISBN-13978-1937134679
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"Glaser's idea of C-IQ provides an excellent guide to improving effectiveness both on the job and outside the office and should stimulate "thinking different" among practitioners, faculty, and students of business. High recommended." Library Journal, starred review
Before you can persuade others, you need to know how to listen and how to communicate. With the best of intentions, we can fall back into patterns and old habits that are less than ideal it’s just the way we’re wired. Conversational Intelligence builds on the fundamental science of communication to help you achieve more attunement with others. If you’re not getting the results you want, maybe it’s time to give your 'C-IQ' a boost.” Daniel H. Pink, best-selling author of Drive and To Sell Is Human
In Conversational Intelligence, Judith Glaser takes us on an insightful and in-depth discovery of how trust, the most basic human instinct, creates and fuels the foundation needed to transform cultures and companies. Trust, at its highest level, removes self and enables interactions and conversations to connect teams for higher performance and purpose.” Angela Ahrendts, CEO of Burberry
Brilliant! Judith Glaser breaks new ground with Conversational Intelligence. Moving us closer to Emotional Intelligence’ (EI) and Learning Intelligence’ (LI) by leveraging the power of Conversational Intelligence’ (CI), she gives us the profoundly practical tools to integrate emotion, learning, and connected conversations into one seamless, life-changing, and leadership-inspiring process. She is truly the Guru of We’!” Kevin Cashman, best-selling author of The Pause Principle and Leadership from the Inside Out, and senior partner of CEO & Executive Development, Korn/Ferry International
Conversational Intelligence is a tour de force spanning new frontiers of research and practice in organizational change. Glaser reminds us that great leadership derives from powerful social exchange and collective solutions that are intricately woven. Intelligence in a digital age is a new admixture: simultaneously crowd-sourced and deeply personal.” Michael Levine, PhD, executive director of the Joan Ganz Cooney Center at Sesame Workshop and co-author of Pioneering Literacy in the Digital Wild West
In her new book, Judith Glaser builds a strong case for how the science and power of conversations can markedly improve business success for both individuals and entire companies. Her approach is both practical and profound: through trust building and level-setting the right conversations, leaders can activate higher engagement, deeper commitment, and transformational results with employees, vendors, and customers. A must-read!” Ed Gilligan, president of American Express
Drawing on a lifetime of [ ] advising America’s top executives, Judith Glaser delivers a masterful analysis of the power of conversation, sharing countless examples of how business leaders are driving change and achieving superior results by leveraging the art and science of Conversational Intelligence’ strategies.” Kathee Tesija, executive vice president of Merchandising and Supply Chain of Target
If each of us used and embodied the principles of Conversational Intelligence conveyed by Glaser in this book, it would not only create winning outcomes for businesses, it would change the world! This is a must read for anyone who wants to have major impact in the world, and especially for those in leadership. The concept of Level 3 Conversation is a total game changer’!” Jane Stevenson, vice chairman of Board and CEO Services of Korn/Ferry International, and co-author of the best-seller, Breaking Away: How Great Leaders Create Innovation that Drives Sustainable Growth and Why Others Fail
Judith Glaser’s new book, Conversational Intelligence, encapsulates the importance of transparency when building respectful relationships that are founded on mutual understanding. In my organization, radical transparency is a core tenet of our business. Glaser’s method supports our practiced philosophy of transparency, but boils it down to the conversational level, making this a practical guide for individual employees, teams, leaders and organizations to work toward mutually agreed upon success. Ryan Smith, co-founder and CEO of Qualtrics, contributor to The Wall Street Journal, and named one of Forbes’ America’s Most Promising CEOs Under 35” for 2013
In her new book, Conversational Intelligence, Judith Glaser provides tools that help understand what is going on in our conversations with one another and how to elevate our Conversational Intelligence’. Conversations that facilitate connectivity with others enable us to activate our higher executive functions to help build common goals throughout an organization. Conversational Intelligence is a must-read for everyone in an organization driving for high quality relationships, shared success and strengthening the organization's ability to make good decisions.” Alessa Quane, Chief Risk Officer, AIG
Words are the ideas on which change is built if we can see the world we want, we need to learn to express that vision in ways that engage others to join our movement and make it a reality. Conversational Intelligence is crucial for that to happen!” Caryl Stern, president and CEO of the U.S. Fund for UNICEF and author of I Believe in Zero: Learning from the World's Children
So, you think you have the gift of gab? That you’re an experienced communicator and it’s served you well in your career? Think again. Great communication, rather than being a programmed trait, is actually a hard-won skill, and learning how to communicate well requires a master guide. Now we have one. Judith Glaser, an internationally respected executive coach and consultant, has broken the mold with her latest book, Conversational Intelligence . Simply said, this book is a find.” Jon Entine, executive director of the Genetic Literacy Project, George Mason University, fellow at the American Enterprise Institute, Washington, DC, and author of Taboo and Abraham’s Children
"In modern-day businesses that operate across continents, cultures, or vast generational differences, a mere turn of phrase can mean conflict, chaos, and wasted resources. Glaser's new book, Conversational Intelligence, will help leaders at all levels learn to engage their heads and hearts to generate trusting relationships that drive their companies to being really great local and global players.” The Honorable Mary K. Bush, president of Bush International and senior managing director of Brock Capital Group, LLC
In a world with increasingly more information with often less relevance, Judith Glaser has written a primer on taking our daily conversations from typically superficial transactions to meaningful ones in an effort to transform the world around us. Using neuroscience, social science research, and a dose of folk wisdom, Conversational Intelligence presents models, tools, and examples relevant to enhancing any part of our professional and personal communication lives.” Sandra L. Shullman, Ph.D., managing partner of Executive Development Group, LLC
In my experience there are books that stimulate the mind, there are books that inspire the heart, and there are books that give practical tools for application. However, it is rare when you find a book that accomplishes all three. Conversational Intelligence is one of those rare books. Judith Glaser’s wisdom and insight draw the reader into the heart’ of her message: To get to the next level of greatness depends on the quality of the culture, which depends on the quality of relationships, which depends on the quality of conversations. Everything happens through conversations.’” Michael J. Stabile, Ph.D., clinical professor in the Department of Educational Leadership and Human Resource Development, Xavier University, and founder and president of FutureNow Consulting, LLC
Judith Glaser’s years of study and experience as an executive coach in large companies have brought her profound insights that manifest themselves in this book of effective strategies underpinned by science and the wisdom of her own heart. Every executive, manager, and coach can benefit from understanding and developing Conversational Intelligence.” Deborah Rozman, Ph.D., CEO of Institute of HeartMath
Before you can persuade others, you need to know how to listen and how to communicate. With the best of intentions, we can fall back into patterns and old habits that are less than ideal it’s just the way we’re wired. Conversational Intelligence builds on the fundamental science of communication to help you achieve more attunement with others. If you’re not getting the results you want, maybe it’s time to give your 'C-IQ' a boost.” Daniel H. Pink, best-selling author of Drive and To Sell Is Human
In Conversational Intelligence, Judith Glaser takes us on an insightful and in-depth discovery of how trust, the most basic human instinct, creates and fuels the foundation needed to transform cultures and companies. Trust, at its highest level, removes self and enables interactions and conversations to connect teams for higher performance and purpose.” Angela Ahrendts, CEO of Burberry
Brilliant! Judith Glaser breaks new ground with Conversational Intelligence. Moving us closer to Emotional Intelligence’ (EI) and Learning Intelligence’ (LI) by leveraging the power of Conversational Intelligence’ (CI), she gives us the profoundly practical tools to integrate emotion, learning, and connected conversations into one seamless, life-changing, and leadership-inspiring process. She is truly the Guru of We’!” Kevin Cashman, best-selling author of The Pause Principle and Leadership from the Inside Out, and senior partner of CEO & Executive Development, Korn/Ferry International
Conversational Intelligence is a tour de force spanning new frontiers of research and practice in organizational change. Glaser reminds us that great leadership derives from powerful social exchange and collective solutions that are intricately woven. Intelligence in a digital age is a new admixture: simultaneously crowd-sourced and deeply personal.” Michael Levine, PhD, executive director of the Joan Ganz Cooney Center at Sesame Workshop and co-author of Pioneering Literacy in the Digital Wild West
In her new book, Judith Glaser builds a strong case for how the science and power of conversations can markedly improve business success for both individuals and entire companies. Her approach is both practical and profound: through trust building and level-setting the right conversations, leaders can activate higher engagement, deeper commitment, and transformational results with employees, vendors, and customers. A must-read!” Ed Gilligan, president of American Express
Drawing on a lifetime of [ ] advising America’s top executives, Judith Glaser delivers a masterful analysis of the power of conversation, sharing countless examples of how business leaders are driving change and achieving superior results by leveraging the art and science of Conversational Intelligence’ strategies.” Kathee Tesija, executive vice president of Merchandising and Supply Chain of Target
If each of us used and embodied the principles of Conversational Intelligence conveyed by Glaser in this book, it would not only create winning outcomes for businesses, it would change the world! This is a must read for anyone who wants to have major impact in the world, and especially for those in leadership. The concept of Level 3 Conversation is a total game changer’!” Jane Stevenson, vice chairman of Board and CEO Services of Korn/Ferry International, and co-author of the best-seller, Breaking Away: How Great Leaders Create Innovation that Drives Sustainable Growth and Why Others Fail
Judith Glaser’s new book, Conversational Intelligence, encapsulates the importance of transparency when building respectful relationships that are founded on mutual understanding. In my organization, radical transparency is a core tenet of our business. Glaser’s method supports our practiced philosophy of transparency, but boils it down to the conversational level, making this a practical guide for individual employees, teams, leaders and organizations to work toward mutually agreed upon success. Ryan Smith, co-founder and CEO of Qualtrics, contributor to The Wall Street Journal, and named one of Forbes’ America’s Most Promising CEOs Under 35” for 2013
In her new book, Conversational Intelligence, Judith Glaser provides tools that help understand what is going on in our conversations with one another and how to elevate our Conversational Intelligence’. Conversations that facilitate connectivity with others enable us to activate our higher executive functions to help build common goals throughout an organization. Conversational Intelligence is a must-read for everyone in an organization driving for high quality relationships, shared success and strengthening the organization's ability to make good decisions.” Alessa Quane, Chief Risk Officer, AIG
Words are the ideas on which change is built if we can see the world we want, we need to learn to express that vision in ways that engage others to join our movement and make it a reality. Conversational Intelligence is crucial for that to happen!” Caryl Stern, president and CEO of the U.S. Fund for UNICEF and author of I Believe in Zero: Learning from the World's Children
So, you think you have the gift of gab? That you’re an experienced communicator and it’s served you well in your career? Think again. Great communication, rather than being a programmed trait, is actually a hard-won skill, and learning how to communicate well requires a master guide. Now we have one. Judith Glaser, an internationally respected executive coach and consultant, has broken the mold with her latest book, Conversational Intelligence . Simply said, this book is a find.” Jon Entine, executive director of the Genetic Literacy Project, George Mason University, fellow at the American Enterprise Institute, Washington, DC, and author of Taboo and Abraham’s Children
"In modern-day businesses that operate across continents, cultures, or vast generational differences, a mere turn of phrase can mean conflict, chaos, and wasted resources. Glaser's new book, Conversational Intelligence, will help leaders at all levels learn to engage their heads and hearts to generate trusting relationships that drive their companies to being really great local and global players.” The Honorable Mary K. Bush, president of Bush International and senior managing director of Brock Capital Group, LLC
In a world with increasingly more information with often less relevance, Judith Glaser has written a primer on taking our daily conversations from typically superficial transactions to meaningful ones in an effort to transform the world around us. Using neuroscience, social science research, and a dose of folk wisdom, Conversational Intelligence presents models, tools, and examples relevant to enhancing any part of our professional and personal communication lives.” Sandra L. Shullman, Ph.D., managing partner of Executive Development Group, LLC
In my experience there are books that stimulate the mind, there are books that inspire the heart, and there are books that give practical tools for application. However, it is rare when you find a book that accomplishes all three. Conversational Intelligence is one of those rare books. Judith Glaser’s wisdom and insight draw the reader into the heart’ of her message: To get to the next level of greatness depends on the quality of the culture, which depends on the quality of relationships, which depends on the quality of conversations. Everything happens through conversations.’” Michael J. Stabile, Ph.D., clinical professor in the Department of Educational Leadership and Human Resource Development, Xavier University, and founder and president of FutureNow Consulting, LLC
Judith Glaser’s years of study and experience as an executive coach in large companies have brought her profound insights that manifest themselves in this book of effective strategies underpinned by science and the wisdom of her own heart. Every executive, manager, and coach can benefit from understanding and developing Conversational Intelligence.” Deborah Rozman, Ph.D., CEO of Institute of HeartMath
About the Author
Judith E. Glaser is the CEO of Benchmark Communications, Inc., and the Chairman of The Creating WE Institute, whose clients include American Airlines, American Express, Cisco, Coach, Exxon, and IBM. Judith has served as an Adjunct Professor at Wharton and a visiting guest speaker at Harvard, Kellogg, Loyola, University of Chicago, NYU, and various other institutions. She has appeared on "NBC's Today Show, ABC World News, The Fox News Channel, " and "CBS Morning News." Judith has been quoted in "The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Crain's, AMA World, " blogs for "Harvard Business Review, " and was named one of "Leadership Excellence"'s Top 20 Thought Leaders of Leadership and Culture in 2012. Judith earned a B.A. from Temple University in Interdisciplinary Studies, and an M.S. in Human Behavior & Development from Drexel University. She earned a Master's Certificate in Corporate and Political Communications from Fairfield University.
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- Publisher : Routledge; 1st edition (Oct. 1 2013)
- Language : English
- Hardcover : 264 pages
- ISBN-10 : 1937134679
- ISBN-13 : 978-1937134679
- Item weight : 544 g
- Dimensions : 15.24 x 1.6 x 22.86 cm
- Best Sellers Rank: #6,705 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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The author thinks she invented every behavioural conversational technique. What is common sense, she makes sound like her invention. Not a very useful book at all!
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Reviewed in Canada on March 11, 2017
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This book not only has useful tools for coaches, it highlights and underscores the importance of creating environments where leaders can foster meaningful conversations to effect change
Reviewed in Canada on March 27, 2017
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Amazing new brain research and findings that simply infuses energy into your quest for change and a new way of thinking, a new way of living...a new world!! Can't stop reading it!!
Reviewed in Canada on May 31, 2018
What an amazing book! After reading it I was motivated to raise my conversational intelligence in my day to day interactions with friends and co-workers. Judith Glaser explains in detail how open and honest conversation on your thoughts and feeling leads to increased trust with those around you. I used the techniques outlined in the book to approach everyone I knew and tell them exactly what I was thinking. Almost immediately noticed a change in how I perceived, and was perceived, by others. A week later I was told that my honesty was making others nervous and promptly fired from my job but I felt real trust from my manager during the dismissal meeting. Would highly recommend!
Reviewed in Canada on July 11, 2017
This is a great book for those who want to raise their leadership abilities through higher conversations. I apply these skills with my clients and have found that it has changed how they converse with others. Building trust is at the forefront of great leadership, and it can only happen when those you lead feel heard and that they have a voice that matters. Judith Glaser has created incredible changes in conversations as a whole.
Reviewed in Canada on December 1, 2013
In the last couple years we have realized that emotional intelligence trumps intellectual intelligence and to a big extent this book, I think tries to add something to the genre but falls far short.
This is a pointed review because I need my books to start quick and end fast.
I am tough this way- especially for business books, if I cannot get a feel and know something I didn't by 10% in, I chuck the book. As 80-90% of the time I am right that the book is a waste of time- why waste half a day or several hours on something that you wouldn't give 20 mins to if you had a conversation with the author.
If you are a business reader that likes to get maybe 1 or 2 sentences that may help in some situations in an entire book- then you may like this.
But very early on savvy readers will realize that the point of the book is to sell a seminar. My marketing hairs on the back of my neck went up with the first TM (trademark) symbol- after that it was down hill from there. Like all books that are trying to sell you something else other than the book always falls short. ALWAYS.
the author is adept at content "spinning" that is words for word count- go to her benchmark communications inc website and actually read the content- filler and marketing/consultant speak mumbo jumbo. And by saying this I don't think I am "boiling the ocean" moving forward with this review.
15% of the book is where I quit. bottom line the book needs a re-write- I don't care about trademark this or that- it smacks of desperate arrogance. Tone down the marketing speak, kill the idea that this book is your readers gateway drug and focus on REAL DEFINITE steps on how, exactly and early on how to fix their listening and conversation skills.
Look at it this way- if the author thinks or knows they are so good then you will have much much more to say on the subject later, if you are good you are not a one hit wonder.
BUT let your book speak for you with value- after all they paid to read something on this subject.
*as an aside, ebooks read differently than traditional books- flipping around in a traditional book scanning where the good stuff starts is easy on an ebook it is impossible to very cumbersome- when you tell me you will tell me how to fix X in the second part, without telling me anything in the first- I cannot flip around- so I delete.
This is a pointed review because I need my books to start quick and end fast.
I am tough this way- especially for business books, if I cannot get a feel and know something I didn't by 10% in, I chuck the book. As 80-90% of the time I am right that the book is a waste of time- why waste half a day or several hours on something that you wouldn't give 20 mins to if you had a conversation with the author.
If you are a business reader that likes to get maybe 1 or 2 sentences that may help in some situations in an entire book- then you may like this.
But very early on savvy readers will realize that the point of the book is to sell a seminar. My marketing hairs on the back of my neck went up with the first TM (trademark) symbol- after that it was down hill from there. Like all books that are trying to sell you something else other than the book always falls short. ALWAYS.
the author is adept at content "spinning" that is words for word count- go to her benchmark communications inc website and actually read the content- filler and marketing/consultant speak mumbo jumbo. And by saying this I don't think I am "boiling the ocean" moving forward with this review.
15% of the book is where I quit. bottom line the book needs a re-write- I don't care about trademark this or that- it smacks of desperate arrogance. Tone down the marketing speak, kill the idea that this book is your readers gateway drug and focus on REAL DEFINITE steps on how, exactly and early on how to fix their listening and conversation skills.
Look at it this way- if the author thinks or knows they are so good then you will have much much more to say on the subject later, if you are good you are not a one hit wonder.
BUT let your book speak for you with value- after all they paid to read something on this subject.
*as an aside, ebooks read differently than traditional books- flipping around in a traditional book scanning where the good stuff starts is easy on an ebook it is impossible to very cumbersome- when you tell me you will tell me how to fix X in the second part, without telling me anything in the first- I cannot flip around- so I delete.
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Reviewed in Canada on October 28, 2020
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Using these simpel explained concepts , turned my language arround. Arguing is seldom needed. as co-creating in a converstion works really well. WHat Judith Glasser offers is a gift , easy life changing read.
one of my top 10 books I'd take if i would have to chose 10.
one of my top 10 books I'd take if i would have to chose 10.
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3.0 out of 5 stars
Common sense wrapped up
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on May 10, 2017Verified Purchase
Most of this is common sense in a new wrapper but as I've said many times common sense is not common practice.
Good as a wee refresher but nothing earth shattering to write home about.
Good as a wee refresher but nothing earth shattering to write home about.

Steve Phillip
4.0 out of 5 stars
Fascinating topic
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on August 15, 2017Verified Purchase
Fascinating subject. To me the book seemed more suited to anyone responsible for leading/managing a team rather than how individuals could enhance their ability to negotiate conversations with others. That said, the same principles can easily be applied.
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Rob Baltzer
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Interesting idea, dull read
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on February 8, 2018Verified Purchase
A really important topic, an area where many of us want and need to improve but this book provides little practical insight. Instead it is heavy with repetitive neuroscience and self-aggrandising stories from the author’s coaching practice. A few useful tools are presented and it’s a quick read hence two stars not one.

Eilish K.
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This is an amazing read I purchased an audio version to play at ...
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on July 31, 2017Verified Purchase
This is an amazing read I purchased an audio version to play at home and in the car. Its full of brilliant case studies for coaching backed up by neuroscience. I particularly love the 5 brains and the dashboard which I have used to great effect with clients particularly in career coaching
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Five Stars
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on December 4, 2018Verified Purchase
Great book - with many insights on how conversations are the foundation of all things!