“One of the best books I’ve ever read on men’s emotional health and development.” Mark Manson, author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck and Models.

“I have read every self-help book out there, but this was the first that put everything together in a way that made perfect sense to me.”

“Every page of my copy of No More Mr. Nice Guy is highlighted in yellow. How did you know me so well?

A Nice Guy, according to Dr. Robert Glover, a pioneering expert on the Nice Guy Syndrome, is a man who believes he is not okay just as he is. He is convinced that he must become what he thinks others want him to be liked, loved, and get his needs met. He also believes that he must hide anything about himself that might trigger a negative response in others.

The Nice Guy Syndrome typically begins in infancy and childhood when a young boy inaccurately internalizes emotional messages about himself and the world. It is fueled by toxic shame and anxiety. Rapid social change in the late 20th century and early 21st century has contributed to a worldwide explosion of men struggling to find happiness, love, and purpose.

The paradigm of the Nice Guy Syndrome is driven by three faulty covert contracts. Nice Guys believe:

• If I am good, then I will be liked and loved.
• If I meet other people’s needs without them having to ask, then they will meet my needs without me having to ask.
• If I do everything right, then I will have a smooth, problem-free life.

• Depression

• Social anxiety and shyness

• Codependency

• Low self-esteem

• Loneliness and hopelessness

• Feelings of failure

• Lack of confidence and purpose

• Compulsive behaviors and addictions

• Feeling stuck in life

• Doing something wrong.
• Looking foolish.
• Getting rejected.
• Becoming a #MeToo casualty.
• Getting into a crappy relationship with no escape.

• Identify your goals for dating – and achieve them.
• Face your fears and soothe your anxiety.
• Overcome your fear of rejection.
• Develop a powerful inner game.
• Talk to women with confidence.
• Know when a woman is interested in you and when she is not.
• Understand what women want in a man.
• Create powerful sexual polarity.
• Stay out of the friend zone.
• Effectively flirt and banter.
• Pass women’s shit tests.

• Overcome self-limiting beliefs.
• Embrace your masculinity.
• Overcome shyness and social anxiety.
• Let go of attachment to outcome.
• Overcome your fear of rejection.
• Create healthy boundaries.

• Overcome self-limiting beliefs
• Effectively test for interest
• Blast through your fear of rejection
• Become an integrated manwhore
• Create powerful polarity that naturally attracts the best women to you
• Let go of attachment to outcome
• Stay out of the friend zone
• Set the tone and take the lead
• Create positive emotional tension
• Embrace your sexual agenda
• Play kinky sex games
• Deal with getting ghosted
• Become a good ender