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My Body! What I Say Goes!: Teach children body safety, safe/unsafe touch, private parts, secrets/surprises, consent, respect

My Body! What I Say Goes!: Teach children body safety, safe/unsafe touch, private parts, secrets/surprises, consent, respect

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Ashley
4.0 out of 5 starsVery happy with purchase
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on January 17, 2023
This book is well written and has good illustrations. I like that it included mouth for private parts and shares the importance of calling private parts by proper names. I like that it touched on feelings and that it’s okay to cry and talk about feelings.

The only critical feedback I would have is it doesn’t speak about what to do if someone in your network makes them feel uncomfortable or touches/hurts them etc. Other than saying to go to another adult in network. What exactly will the network be able to do to make sure they feel safe? What if no one else is around when this happens and they can’t go talk to someone else right away?
I also worry that the message is sending to kids that if they say “no” that the abuse will stop and it’s as simple as telling someone.
There may be violence or threats that can be just as scary and very hard for children.

We know that abuse if often perpetrated by trusted adult. This can be confusing for children. The people they ‘trust’ in their network may also be hurting them- physically or emotionally.

With that being said, I like that this book is meant to engage children in further conversations and can help facilitate some of these other concerns and what if scenarios to plan better with children.

This book is worth the price paid and will be read over and over many years, to many children.
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Mary
3.0 out of 5 starsAge range not accurate, very complex and long
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on August 7, 2022
I really enjoy teaching my daughter concepts through books. This has worked out well for bedtime, emotions, becoming a big sister, mom's pregnancy, etc. She is turning 4 in a few weeks and I read the reviews and description and thought this would suit her.

I was wrong! It teaches great concepts and I don't disagree with anything in the book, but it is very detailed and very complex. Each section could be its own book, and there are 5 major parts of the book. Each page of each section is very... Dense, introducing new and intense concepts requiring a lot of discussion.

I knew it was a workbook but didn't understand how intense it was until it was in my hands. It even requires you work with your family and community to identity 3-5 adults to act as a "safety network" and those adults also just be introduced to the concepts in the book so they know what the kid is talking about. That's a great idea, but is a lot to ask, when I just want my kid to know about concept for herself, for others, her private parts, and about listening to her gut and alerting is to anyone she doesn't feel safe with. We've already done a lot of that work but a simple book would help clarify things.

My husband and I decided to keep this but it will be more suitable when she's at LEAST 6. Saying this understandable for 4 year olds is really pushing it IMO. It also requires a lot for parents, it's not a simple bedtime book to teach a kid things, and I don't think that's clear from the description.
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Ashley
4.0 out of 5 stars Very happy with purchase
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on January 17, 2023
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This book is well written and has good illustrations. I like that it included mouth for private parts and shares the importance of calling private parts by proper names. I like that it touched on feelings and that it’s okay to cry and talk about feelings.

The only critical feedback I would have is it doesn’t speak about what to do if someone in your network makes them feel uncomfortable or touches/hurts them etc. Other than saying to go to another adult in network. What exactly will the network be able to do to make sure they feel safe? What if no one else is around when this happens and they can’t go talk to someone else right away?
I also worry that the message is sending to kids that if they say “no” that the abuse will stop and it’s as simple as telling someone.
There may be violence or threats that can be just as scary and very hard for children.

We know that abuse if often perpetrated by trusted adult. This can be confusing for children. The people they ‘trust’ in their network may also be hurting them- physically or emotionally.

With that being said, I like that this book is meant to engage children in further conversations and can help facilitate some of these other concerns and what if scenarios to plan better with children.

This book is worth the price paid and will be read over and over many years, to many children.
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Daisy Ajram
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent book
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on March 17, 2023
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Excellent book.
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Anndy Leu
5.0 out of 5 stars A book that every parent and caregiver should get
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on February 13, 2023
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In order to teach and protect our little ones from being abused/bulled, unwanted touch and to empower them, this is the perfect book.
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Mary
3.0 out of 5 stars Age range not accurate, very complex and long
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on August 7, 2022
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I really enjoy teaching my daughter concepts through books. This has worked out well for bedtime, emotions, becoming a big sister, mom's pregnancy, etc. She is turning 4 in a few weeks and I read the reviews and description and thought this would suit her.

I was wrong! It teaches great concepts and I don't disagree with anything in the book, but it is very detailed and very complex. Each section could be its own book, and there are 5 major parts of the book. Each page of each section is very... Dense, introducing new and intense concepts requiring a lot of discussion.

I knew it was a workbook but didn't understand how intense it was until it was in my hands. It even requires you work with your family and community to identity 3-5 adults to act as a "safety network" and those adults also just be introduced to the concepts in the book so they know what the kid is talking about. That's a great idea, but is a lot to ask, when I just want my kid to know about concept for herself, for others, her private parts, and about listening to her gut and alerting is to anyone she doesn't feel safe with. We've already done a lot of that work but a simple book would help clarify things.

My husband and I decided to keep this but it will be more suitable when she's at LEAST 6. Saying this understandable for 4 year olds is really pushing it IMO. It also requires a lot for parents, it's not a simple bedtime book to teach a kid things, and I don't think that's clear from the description.
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Under the Radar
5.0 out of 5 stars A Cool Workbook That Teaches Vital Concepts Effectively
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on January 26, 2020
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I enjoy the format of this book. It introduces a concept and follows it with a question. The beginning explains feelings and then poses questions to ask the child more about their own feelings. (There is an appendix in the back with further info on questions that can be posed). I like how it goes from exploring feelings to then discussing how we also know what feels safe or unsafe.

I valued that real body part names like penis and vulva are used. I also really liked that a variety of people from different walks of life are shown.

There are several core concepts taught that are so great. ie. How important it is to have adults you feel safe with to talk to if you feel unsafe, what the difference is between secrets and surprises, who your safety network is, what a safety bubble is on your body... Obviously this is a broad manual but the guardian of the child can easily make it personal and talk with the child about who THEIR network is.

As someone who was surprised by a predator known to me when I was a child, I really believe that this book is a treasure. It can't identify every potential danger person but it teaches the important core concepts that when put together would allow a child to recognize when they feel unsafe and to take appropriate action. It's a great tool in the first steps of safety education.

That being said, my 4 year old niece found it a bit overwhelming. She had a lot of fun answering questions but then lost interest quickly. So, I am putting the book away for a bit and will introduce it again in 6 months and where her attention span is then.
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Under the Radar
5.0 out of 5 stars A Cool Workbook That Teaches Vital Concepts Effectively
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on January 26, 2020
I enjoy the format of this book. It introduces a concept and follows it with a question. The beginning explains feelings and then poses questions to ask the child more about their own feelings. (There is an appendix in the back with further info on questions that can be posed). I like how it goes from exploring feelings to then discussing how we also know what feels safe or unsafe.

I valued that real body part names like penis and vulva are used. I also really liked that a variety of people from different walks of life are shown.

There are several core concepts taught that are so great. ie. How important it is to have adults you feel safe with to talk to if you feel unsafe, what the difference is between secrets and surprises, who your safety network is, what a safety bubble is on your body... Obviously this is a broad manual but the guardian of the child can easily make it personal and talk with the child about who THEIR network is.

As someone who was surprised by a predator known to me when I was a child, I really believe that this book is a treasure. It can't identify every potential danger person but it teaches the important core concepts that when put together would allow a child to recognize when they feel unsafe and to take appropriate action. It's a great tool in the first steps of safety education.

That being said, my 4 year old niece found it a bit overwhelming. She had a lot of fun answering questions but then lost interest quickly. So, I am putting the book away for a bit and will introduce it again in 6 months and where her attention span is then.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Good book
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on December 13, 2022
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Informative but not scary. I read it to my 5 yr old
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KHShopper
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent For Age 5 Son
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on September 14, 2022
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I read this book to my son (5yrs) for the first time tonight and it was well received. He was able to understand the lessons, answer questions, and repeat the take away messages. I thought it was very age appropriate.
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Jeanean
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent book
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on August 24, 2022
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A bit long for younger kids, but structured in a way you can skip over parts or read specific parts for kids with shorter attention spans. Very good at addressing consent and secrets.
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Marla
5.0 out of 5 stars Fantastic Book!
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on April 30, 2022
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This book is wonderful. Easy for young children (my 4 year old) to understand and have conversations about very important topics. We have incorporated the language and terms in our daily life. If anyone is looking to teach their children about body safety, consent or the trust network a child has, this is a great way to start these conversations.
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Devonee
5.0 out of 5 stars Teaches children to recognize the danger and listen to what their body is saying.
Reviewed in Canada 🇨🇦 on March 10, 2021
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I love this book!
My five year old daughter and I have read it a few times, I just passed on to a good friend for her to read to her girls.
This book is engaging, it gives real life situations and explains what your body might be feeling in situations that are not safe. It tells children to listen to their body and encourages them to speak up about any early warning signs they may be feeling. My five year old daughter has established a group of individuals whom she trusts, learnt to recognize the warning signs, and how to be clear with her words when saying that what she says goes.
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